Sunday, December 9, 2007

Stange and New

I know my blog is kind of all over the place, but I am and all over the place kin of girl. There are just so many thoughts zapping in and out of my head that its hard to concentrate and write about one single issue. So now I am back with this love thing. Love is just love, there is no explanation it just a necessity.

I have this new love, that is so new is strange. Ive never felt it before, never experienced anything like it. All i know is that strange and new is not always a bad thing. It may even be better then anything you will ever know.

Strange and new can be used to describe lots of things in life the first time you drank a beer the first time your rode a bike the first time you made love and the first time you fell in love. Strange and new can only be used once in most cases because to use the phrase twice in a situation would make that situation neither strange nor new. Heres where the exception comes into play the L word as is does with everything thing it comes in contact with love changes the rules.

Think about it if you knew everything about a video game you would finish it then its on to the next. Can you imagine a world with no stable love, just a loveless society of serial daters staying up all night all night playing the game its a challenge until the basic rule and strategy of the game is digested then once its is the thrill is gone the newness is over and its then on the next.the same thing applies to books, hobbies, and work Love is truly the only renewable resource, the one that I after you think you have mastered every aspect of it throws a strange curve ball and becomes new all over again. We would like to believe that after any substantial time in a relationship we know all we want or care to know about our significant other, sorry all we really know is that we dont know squat,we know is that we like each other because we laugh or get along, we can finish a sentence, my friends like her/him and maybe we share a common interest but beyond that what do we really know.

I tried to put my finger on what makes love so different. Why does Love when its real Love seem so strange and new its simple the human factor, Its amazing for people to be in love for 50 sometimes 60 years when theres so much temptation and newness floating around, the upgraded model always looks better than the original right?, I guess its what they say we want what we want and strange and new or the spice of life is the key to endurance.

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